Is swinging risky?
Swinging is probably less risky than playing golf!
Physical safety
Because swinging is very much a community, people know each other, and so
trouble makers are few and far between.
If you are a single person going to meet someone new, always meet in a
safe location such as a bar, club or restaurant. If after chatting to the
person you don`t want to take things further, tell the person, and then
leave. If the person follows you, go somewhere where you know friends will
be, or to a police station, never lead a person to your home, unless you
feel safe with them.
Tell a friend that you are going on a date, and tell them when you will
be contacting them again. Tell them that if you are late calling, for them
to call you. If they cannot make contact with you, tell them to call the
police. Its better to be safe and maybe a bit embarrassed, than to be in
danger.
Sexual safety
Research amongst swingers in the USA has shown that swingers have a lower
incidence of sexually transmitted diseases than the general population. We
don`t know if this is true in Spain, but we have not contracted anything yet
in over 30 years of swinging in the UK and Spain, more than 50% of the time
not using any protection.
Any genuine swinger will be happy to use a condom, and everyone should
carry some with them to clubs, parties and personal meetings. If someone
refuses to use a condom, tell them NO. Everyone has the right to choose to
have their partner use a condom.
Risks to your relationship
Most swingers are in the scene for nsa (no strings attached) fun. If
someone starts getting heavy ask them politely to move on. Guys and girls,
don`t fall in lust/love with a couple. You will endanger the relationship of
the couple. Remember the couple is here for their fun and enjoyment, you
risk spoiling their fun by professing love for one or both of them.
Swining is not the place to look for a new husband/wife, use a dating
site where everyone is looking for love, rather than a swingers site where
people are looking for sex.
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